Love Yourself First - Technical Deep Dive

Love Yourself First" - is the core interest of this blog.
We think it is easy and we are all doing it. But the truth is "No". Albeit we all know about it,but it rarely comes up in our mind when we live our life, so we fail to love ourselves. Do You know how happy you and the people around you would be if you do this. But there are people who truly do this and these are the people who truly stand out in the crowd . They attract everyone just by the way they treat others.
Our nature is to treat others the way you treat yourself. Jane is a straightforward man and he would expect others to be the same. Another example is John dislikes unpunctuality, if he is not on time he scolds himself, if somebody is not punctual then John would react the same way he had reacted to himself.
In reality if you are not able to love yourself then you cannot love others. So its time to take an inner look into your own self. Take your any one day and listen to your mind, see how your mind perceives things and how it reacts or responds to different situations. When you get angry, when you suspect someone, when you are happy, when you are irritated, when you feel pity, when you feel patriotic, when you wait, when you win, when you lose, when you love, when you hate..etc. Jane might read loudly infront of others with the intention to irritate others, but John would not have that intention and he reads casually, but when Jane sees John reading loudly he gets angry as he feels that John is intentionally doing it.
If you analyse the problem the fundamental issue is that you are reacting to everything. We should not react, but should respond. Try listening to your mind durning good and bad times. At good times see how you can control urself so that you are not carried away or crossed ur limits. At bad times see how you are handling it and reacting to the situations. You should always think that everyone has got their own unique way of perceiving things, so you should respect it like how you would respect your your perception of things. Love yourself and Keep yourself cool during these times becoz you are your first friend. If you do so ,I bet that you would listen to others and see things in their shoes and respect their feelings and thoughts at all times.